Proud Army Wife

November is Military Appreciation Month. I have been an Army wife for over 9 years and was an Army girlfriend for three years before that. It is a life that I have chosen, because I love my husband and this is the life he chose for himself. I knew what I was getting myself into when I met him, although we met before 9/11 and a lot has changed since I met that cute redhead at a party in Hawaii.

The military is a lifestyle, and it is one I wouldn't give back for anything. For all of the hard times there are always the good. I have moved places I never imagined I would moved to, such as Monterey, California and Washington D.C.. I have made friends who have touched my life in such a way that I am forever grateful. I have had tears and laughs with so many of those who share this lifestyle. I have had to let my guard down and be able to put myself out there to build new friendships because I have had to leave friends behind at our last "home." I have been blessed to be reunited with those friends at new "homes" and to feel like we were never apart. My military friends understand a part of me that my friends from home can't. They know I am going to have days that I just want to scream. Days when I want to know what time my husband is coming home. Days when I just want to know where I will be living in a years time.

We all have our days that we just can't take anymore, but those days give us strength. Strength is what makes military spouses so special. We have learned that we really can do anything. We can be a wife, a mother and fill in all of the gaps a father usually would. We can be a single parent when it is called for. We have learned how to accomplish everything in a household and then to go back to only having to do some of it when our lives are turned upside down with the comings and goings of a deployment. We are unnoticed and are okay with that, because we know that we are what holds the foundation of our family together when we have no other choice, but to kiss our loved one goodbye and just hope and pray that they come back to us. We have had babies by ourselves, spent holidays without our spouses, and know the car maintenance schedule better then our husbands. All of these things make us better and stronger. It gives us a perspective that most cannot understand. Under our strong exteriors we are all afraid that at some point we are going to get that knock on the door. We have had days that we jump at the sound of the doorbell and pray that it is only the UPS man, because we haven't heard from our spouse in days and our minds our filled with the worst. We have cried when we wash a piece of our spouses clothing on accident and did not realize it. We have also refused to wash just that one thing that might still have his smell on it, so that at some point you can hold it close to you and feel that much closer to the one you love.
It always amazes me that these things seem to be shared by so many. For all of our differences we have in common the military. This will be with us through the rest of our life. I am proud to be a military wife and sometimes worry how I will transition to the civilian world someday. This is what I know. It is who I am and how I live my life. I don't want pity. I chose this life and am proud of it. It warms my heart when I see people thank our soldiers, but I always try to go one step further and thank the family, because they are sacrificing too.

Happenings

I know it has been awhile. Okay, not just awhile, but a LONG time! I give up. I am not a very good blogger. It is really hard to keep up with this thing. I know I could do better than every five months though. A lot has happened in the Copeland household in the past few months, so here is the update.

John is now a big seven year old first grader!! Kindergarten has ended and first grade is upon us. He is LOVING it so far and I really like his teacher. He is a Tiger Scout and after a bumpy start with his pack he is now enjoying scouting, even if I am not. It is A LOT of work and unfortunately it is a lot of work for me. The tooth fairy will be making her first visit to John soon. He is very close to losing a tooth. It is just hanging there, and frankly it is giving me the chills just thinking about that gross feeling of slimy gum after a tooth falls out......ewwww.......BUT he is very excited. Three more behind that tooth and he may have no front teeth in a couple of months.

Mary Cate is three going on fifteen. She has become quite the little diva. She is now potty trained, thank god! She is talking in full sentences and will tell it to you like it is a few times over. She is VERY opinionated about her clothing or lack there of lately. She is going through a nudist phase. She strips down to her panties as soon as she walks in the house. Hopefully it is a habit she will grow out of before college! Most importantly she is very sweet and loving and we love her very much, even through the temper tantrums.

Summer came and went quickly this year. We went to Hilton Head with my family and then kids and I went to my parents for a week. I almost needed a vacation from my vacation when it was all said and done. It was wonderful though. Hilton Head was great and it was great to be home in Georgia for a week. I got to catch up with some high school friends who I really wish I could see more of (one downfall of the military and moving so much), and meet some new babies. Family moved from DC this summer too. On both sides we said farewell to my sister and Doug's brother. It was so wonderful to have a year with all of them close by, and it was hard to say goodbye. Luckily we have such a wonderful group of friends here in Virginia, that it has made being away from family easier. We are very blessed!

Fall is already upon us and we are as busy as ever. Always one to throw a party I seem to be planning many and then wonder what I have gotten myself into when they are happening, but we always have a great time in the end. We are not traveling this fall, or at least the kids and I aren't. Doug's schedule has had him gone A LOT lately, but that seems to work with my nightly TV addiction. I do like to watch my shows in quiet:) Hopefully I can update more often, but that remains to be seen!

Ummm....yeah....Just not feeling it....

Umm...When was my last post? I don't even remember, it has been so long. I just haven't been feeling it lately. Today is a new day and for some reason I just feel like typing will make me feel better.
I am in a funk today. It has been gloomy and rainy for two days straight and I think it has just gotten to me. Heck, I even had a good cry this morning and I am not even sure what I was crying about. It did make me feel better after I was done, but Mary Cate wasn't feeling Mommy crying. She started sobbing and we ended up snuggling on the couch for awhile. What is it about a good cry? I was just walking down the stairs this morning with a new pair of big girl panties for Mary Cate and I just started sobbing. I was in a fairly ill tempered mood before that, which my poor husband took the brunt of before he left for work. Poor guy, he left by telling me that when I am bitchy in the morning it ruins the rest of his day. The comment kind of pissed me off, but in the end I just felt guilty. So there I ended up sitting on the toilet (with the lid down, using it as a seat) watching my two year old sit on the potty sobbing for no apparent reason. Yes, that was the start of my day. Puffy eyes and all it did feel good to get whatever it really was off of my chest (still trying to figure that one out, but I would guess some kind of hormones would be involved and NO I am NOT pregnant)!
I guess I should recap a little of my life over the past couple of months. Nothing too exciting, but just the same...

The terrible twos are in full swing in this house. John never went through this stage, so this is something new. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy. Mary Cate is adorable, but man is she stubborn and opinionated. She gets that from both sides. There are many days it is a good thing she is so adorable, because she would be hard to take if she wasn't. At any given moment there is some kind of tantrum going on in this house. Whether it be about wanting a certain Mouse or Hispanic brunette on the TV, or wanting some kind of chocolate concoction out of the pantry (she is my child after all) she is has the tantrum down pat. Three can not get here quick enough!

We have signed John up for two different activities, Cub Scouts and Tee Ball. Both are proving to be much more of a commitment then originally thought. Lets start with Cub Scouts. Cub Scouts starts in first grade, but you can sign the kid up in the spring before so they can attend summer camps. Sounded great to me! So at the spring orientation I go up to the summer camp table and tell the lady that he would be a tiger scout and I wanted to sign him up for a day camp. She immediately told me that I would have to attend with him each day. Seriously?? Doesn't that defeat the purpose of sending your kid to summer camp? I want him to go to summer camp so I can have a break! I don't want to go to tiger scout camp!!! Heck, I didn't even enjoy Girl Scouts! In the end we signed him up for a one day Saturday camp that my husband will be attending with him. My poor husband has also been persuaded to become the den leader. He tried to say no, but the cub scout master would not take no for an answer and in the end he was a higher rank then my husband and I am pretty sure that Doug felt like he could not say no. Now I am worried that with Doug being gone so much I am going to get roped into doing the majority of the stuff. NOT FUN!!! I told Doug that I am not going to wear the uniform and that I don't camp. That is where I draw the line!
Tee Ball started last week and has now turned into a four day a week commitment. Two practices and two games a week. It is Tee Ball people! They are trying to kill me! At least this is cute to watch and I do like the coach, but have to admit that the other mother's on the team leave a lot to be desired and are not that approachable. Oh well, it is only until the second week of June! I may lose my mind between now and then.

On a happier note, I did get yelled at by a crazy lady at the bus stop! Short version of the story is that our kids are in the same class and they don't mix well. I was getting notes that John became friends with a kid who didn't make the right choices and that kid was her kid. At age 6 I feel like I can still tell my kid who can be friends with, so I did and she yelled at me, saying that I called her kid a bad kid. Wrong, I said he didn't make the right choices. She also said that I was a young and naive mother. Yes, thank you for the compliment you old hag!

On a truly happy note the government shutdown didn't happen so we are getting paid on Friday!! Congress is on my list right now! I am not even going to get started on this topic. It just makes me angry!

I painted my dining room/play room. I love it! It is a light green and looks SO much better!

We are tackling potty training. Not very successfully, but trying. This is one of my least favorite things to do.

Doug has been home more lately. By home, I mean sleeping in our house. If he isn't traveling for work they are working him until 8 pm or so at night. He gets home just about the time I am ready to sit down and watch one of my shows. The sacrifices we make...

Doug's truck got hit at the O'Club's parking lot last week. They did over $1000 in damage and left without a word. Thank goodness for good insurance and an uninsured motorist clause that lowered our deductible to $200. Still annoying!

Doug is leaving to go hunting on my birthday this year. I have been told I am not allowed to complain since I gave my permission (I didn't really know I had a choice in the matter), because it will ruin the experience. This will be year three that he has missed my birthday. Maybe he might send me a cake this year. We will see...

I just realized I started the last three things with Doug.

I have gained 10 pounds since December. IT SUCKS!!! Jogging stroller came out of storage on Sunday and as soon as it stops raining it is on.

Speaking of Jogging Strollers, Doug asked me if I wanted to run the Army 10 Miler with him. Umm....NO! I can't even run a mile let alone 10 and I don't think that running 10 miles sounds like fun.

Things that have not helped my weight....COSTCO!!! They had this amazing tuxedo mouse cake last weekend. It was by far one of the best things I have ever eaten!

The fish are still alive....(Sorry I looked to the right and noticed them) This isn't for anything I have done for them. I don't think I have cleaned the tank in the past two months.

NEVER EVER go to the Smithsonian during spring break the day before a possible government shutdown. IT WAS HELL!!!!! I wanted to kill some teenagers.

We moved Mary Cate out of the crib and have gotten rid of the binkys. It seems so weird she is getting so big and is talking in full sentences. She is hilarious. My new favorite is when she brings me a pull up and tells me to, "Change my butt."

Okay, I think that is it. Maybe I will be better at this. Maybe someone actually reads this, but I am not sure of that one. It did pick me up a little today though and for that I am thankful.

Oh yeah, I am not proofreading this either, so oh well...

Some people have a tornado. I have a HURRICANE!!

I am tired. Just plain tired this week. I have been trying to keep a house that resembles clean, but unfortunately each time I do something I have this little helper behind me that undoes EVERYTHING! My dear sweet husband would just tell me that she is just helping, but I am tired of being helped. I want a day or maybe two that I can clean and organize my house and it STAYS that way for more than 5 minutes. It is just discouraging to clean a room, start on another and then when I turn around the room I just cleaned is littered with toys or various other things my sweet little "Biscuit" has dragged out.
Today I am trying to get some laundry done, so that I am not drowning in it on Monday (you should have seen my pile this past Monday). I folded an entire load of laundry, placed it in the laundry basket to take upstairs, went into the kitchen to get a water and when I came back ALL of the clothes were back on the floor and there was sweet little "Biscuit" in the laundry basket. It is a good thing she is cute!
I just finished picking up various play kitchen items off of the family room floor and took them back into the playroom. I am sure once she wakes up the same toys, plus a few additions will be back on the floor in the family room. Hopefully I will be able to run a quick vacuum over the carpet before this happens. Speaking of vacuums and carpets have I mentioned her love of dumping various food items off of one plate and into some other vessel (not always a plate or a bowl). I have to vacuum EVERY day lately or else I stepping on pieces of cheerios, cookies, chips, and today's addition turkey lunch meat (I got that up very quickly). She is either going to be a chef or a chemist. She has a love of transferring food or other objects from one thing to another.
I have decided that it is a good thing that I am not OCD about a clean house. If I was I would NEVER get any rest with my sweet little "Biscuit", although I am just going to start calling her Hurricane "Biscuit" (speaking of biscuits, I found those on the floor yesterday).

Happy New Year!

Where did last year go? I cannot believe it is already 2011! December flew by so fast and I don't expect January to slow down either. There are so many things I want to do this year and maybe if I am lucky a couple of them will get accomplished. So here is my list...

1. I want to finally lost the weight. Yeah, I know this is nothing new from me and I did lose some weight last year, but this year I want to get off what I gained last month (we won't even go there) and get off the remaining 20 pounds or so that I have left. I am going to try to get off of my lazy ass and actually exercise. It is so easy to say this and much harder to actually get up and do it. I had a dream the other night that I was running and in the end I could run more then five miles. This would be great except for the fact that I HATE running!!!! In theory I would love to be a runner, but the reality is that I just don't get the "runners high" that runners talk about. I just get tired, sweaty and BORED!!! I will start slow with the Wii Fit and go from there. Maybe if I try for 2 pounds a month I can actually do this. Now of course this is something that I say EVERY year, but you never know, maybe this year it will catch on.

2. I want to be organized. I love a clean house as much as the next person, but I have trouble keeping one on a daily basis. It is just exhausting to constantly pick up after a two year old and my two year old seems to be more of a tornado then most. I am going to start off simple. I am going to make the beds everyday. If you know me well, you know that I am not a bed maker. In fact I have never seen the point in the practice. You are just going to mess it up again later on that night, but I have to admit that a made bed does make the room seem neater. I have made the beds each day so far this year (yes, I know it is only day 4).

3. I am going to cook more and eat out less. I am a sucker for food. Okay, that is putting it mildly. I LOVE FOOD and I LOVE TO EAT OUT!!! I love to cook too, but I love to let others do the dirty work. I want to expand my cooking repertoire this year. I feel like I cook the same things over and over again. I am going to go through my massive stack of cookbooks and photocopy the recipes that I want to try and put them in a binder so that they are handy. Maybe this way I will take the initiative and try them out. My husband will be so happy to eat something other then spaghetti (I do make a mean spaghetti though).

4. I want to get my house exactly how I want it or at least until I tire of it. I want to paint my great room and the kid's rooms. I am tired of white walls. I am so hopeful that we will be in this house for awhile that I am ready to make it my own. I haven't done this since we were at Fort Benning and then we ended up moving a year after we painted the ENTIRE house. Thankfully then we didn't have to repaint. We just paid a flat fee and they let us move without bothering. I would love to paint my family room, but it has two story ceilings and when I mentioned it to my husband he looked at me like I had lost my mind. I tend to agree with him, but it would look so much better with a color on the wall.

5. Potty train the two year old!!! I am getting tired of diapers, but now quite tired enough to make me really work on potty training. My goal is to have her out of diapers before September. I figure I will hit it hard this summer. It should be interesting. She is VERY strong willed and I am sure we will have battles. Hopefully she will want to be a big girl and wear the princess panties.

6. To add onto number 5... GET RID OF THE BINKY!!!! I am ready to get rid of the binky, but I am not sure that everyone else in the house is so ready. Every time that I have a no binky day either my son or husband seem to feel the need to stick one in her mouth if she asks. If "Biscuit" (my husbands pet name for our daughter) wants it she gets it. I think that this will backfire later in life for him, but I just sit back sometimes and laugh. She truly does have him wrapped around her little finger. We will see how much of a "Biscuit" she is when she is 16.

7. Read more! I have started this, with the addition of my Kindle (which I am pretty sure I could not live without anymore). I have always loved to read, but it is hard to look for good books in a store with kids in tow. I love having the ability to instantly download books and when I am done with one I can easily get another (this is especially nice for sequels). I have already finished two books since the 1st, so that is a good start.

I think that 2011 will be a wonderful year. It is already better then last year since we are starting out the year in Virginia instead of El Paso. It is so nice to know that this year will be filled with family and friends and that alone will make it a wonderful year!!

SNOW!!!

I am a kid at heart and I LOVE snow!!! So when I woke up this morning and knew there was a chance of snow today I was so excited! This being said I went along with what the weatherman said and got my errands out of the way since he said the snow would not start until 11 am. So after the bus came this morning off I went to Khols to get nylons (gag...I hate wearing them, but we have a formal tomorrow night). When I went into the store the sky was cloudy, but no white stuff, thirty minutes later I am leaving and the roads were white! Now I am a southern girl. I am not used to snow and when it does happen I am at home and don't have to worry about driving in the stuff. Not to mention that usually when it snows it takes awhile for it to stick to the roads. Oh no, not today. I am so thankful that I made it home in one piece. I did fishtail a few times and had a scary turn, but in the end I made it and my car is still in one piece (good thing, because I did not really want a new car for Christmas). Now that I am home and warm in front of the fire I will enjoy all of the snow falling from the sky. I have the fireplace on and am thinking that some hot cocoa is in my future. The only thing I am not looking forward to is getting John at the bus stop. School is being let out two hours early today due to the snow. Unfortunately I still have to walk up the bus stop. Normally I would drive up in the cold, but I am not getting back in my car today. So I will put on the snow boots in a few hours and get Mary all dolled up in her snow suit (boy am I glad I went ahead an bought that thing) and together we will walk (probably very slowly) in the snow. I think I may even bring John's boots along so he is ready.

So the rest of the day I will enjoy the beautiful snow. I know people hate snow, but I still love it and I still feel like a kid when it happens.

HOLY TWO YEAR OLDS!

That screaming you hear is coming from my house. Don't worry no one is hurt or in trouble, it is just my daughter throwing a fit because life is not going her way. This has been my life lately. Last night it was because she wanted to eat dinner on the floor in front of the TV and mommy said no (this was the best tantrum so far). Today it was because I walked upstairs without her (yep, that is all it took). In the grocery store it was because she wanted the cart with the steering wheel. Seeing a trend. She is even beginning to perfect her fits! They have gone from a fussing fit to a downright on the floor screaming (and I mean blood curdling) while throwing whatever she has in her hands. Someday I will videotape her so that I can share it with her someday when she has her own sweet little two year old.
My poor husband is coming home today and will be greeted by not only a two year old who is giving the phrase "Terrible Twos" a whole new meaning, but a wife who is DONE!! This whole single parent thing is for the birds and heck, I am married! Yes, I know that when I married a guy in the Army I knew he would be gone a lot, but this if getting RIDICULOUS!!! I can't remember the last time my husband was home for more then 2 weeks. He keeps on telling me that she can't be that bad and that she is such a biscuit. Well, he is going to be home for a full week and I plan on giving him a taste of his "Biscuit". Mommy has earned a few hours to herself. Actually I have earned more then a few hours, heck I have earned months!
I am hoping this two year stage goes by quickly. I may need happy pills by the end of it. She is cute for sure and it is a good thing. My mother keeps on telling me that she is just like I was at that age. Thanks Mom for wishing that I would have a child just like me someday. I really could have done without that wish, but I have a feeling I will be wishing for the same thing.

You mean I have to shower everyday!

As I was taking a shower today I realized how much life has changed for me in the past few years. Before I had my son I would have been mortified to leave the house without makeup on let alone to not take a shower. Taking a shower, drying my hair and putting on makeup were normal. Then I had my son. Showers and getting dressed were rushed during naps. I did shower everyday and makeup was applied, but my hair was never carefully styled and gone were the days of being able to change outfits ten times because you felt fat in one (once I had kids this just happened in every outfit, so I just stopped trying). It became the norm. Then I had another child. Well, this is where it changes. Yes, I shower everyday, but I don't necessarily wash my hair. I really do try to do it daily, but sometimes I just shower to rinse off. Oh, and if I do wash my hair and don't plan on going anywhere I don't dry it anymore. I tell myself that it is better for my hair. Makeup, well that is something that only gets put on when I am going out for the day. Gone are the days of putting on makeup just to go to the grocery store. You don't need makeup to grocery shop. Plus, who am I trying to impress? I already have a husband! There are weeks like last week that I am lucky if I put on makeup one day out of five. It just isn't necessary. Oh and shaving ones legs...forget it!!! I remember when I was just married I would have been mortified for my husband to feel my legs if I hadn't shaved them. Baby those days are GONE!
Someday I will become human again, but until then I am a mother of two. One off to school in the morning and the other who likes to throw things in the toilet if I try to shower when she is awake. I will briefly venture into human territory this weekend on my short trip to a wedding in New Orleans minus kids, but it will be for one brief day. I would say getting ready will be peaceful without interruption, but I will have my husband with me and he is after all my third child.

Red Wine and Sippy Cups

I am considering the perks of downing a bottle of wine tonight. It has been one of those days. I love my daughter, but this two year old bit is getting OLD! It is a good thing she is cute because there were times I might have packaged her up today (not seriously, so don't report me) and fedex'd her to Nana! This was day three without her normal three hour nap. She at least took one today, but only for an hour. She has also refused to eat anything that is not in the shape of a fish or multicolored with chocolate in the middle (meaning M&M's). So on top of being over tired and just plain 2 she has low blood sugar which makes for a grump (which I understand since I get this way too, but not voluntarily). So tonight maybe the apple juice will be replaced with a good Cabernet and Mommy might sit on the couch with a good movie drinking wine out of the sippy cup. Who knows after today her binky might be good too:) Doesn't that make a great mental picture?

You Have Got to be Kidding!

About the time that the movers were moving us into our house I contracted Hand Foot and Mouth disease from my sweet little girl. This was about a month ago now. After a week of painful blisters on my hands and feet and inside my mouth I thought that I was good. Well, little does the online info on this illness tell you that a few weeks later your hands and then feet would start to peel! Yuck, as if the initial onslaught of this thing wasn't enough it had lingering effects! So my peeling just ended a few days ago. I thought I was good. No more peeling hands and feet and then it hit today....the best part of it all...PEELING NAILS!!! Yep, you heard me right, one of my nails is peeling up from the base. It is just gross. I started to notice that the area above the cuticle was getting really light and then a little while ago I noticed what I thought was my cuticle, but to only find out that it was peeling upwards and that it was my nail. Thank goodness there seems to be new nail underneath, but come on this is getting ridiculous! I am freaking out that my nails are going to fall off and that my toenails are next! I just paid almost 50.00 bucks for a pedi last week. I don't want it to peel off from the nail. I am hoping that it will be a one nail event since none of my other nails seem to be discoloring. Hoping and praying! The thought of the whole thing just has me weirded out. Luckily Mary Cate never had any of this peeling business. Good thing, I can't imagine dealing with a toddler whose nails are peeling off. I am hoping that this is the last hoorah for this thing and it will finally GO AWAY! Luckily I haven't been contagious in weeks, but I just want to forget about this experience. It is seriously one of the yuckiest and worst illnesses I have had. So here is to hoping that I keep my nails (and toenails)!

Just Haven't Had Much

Okay, so I am apparently the world's worst blogger. It is just that I haven't had anything lately. Life has been busy though with getting the house together and birthday parties. The house looks great and is about 97 percent put together. The only room we really have left is the fourth bedroom, but that is Doug's room and I am not touching it with a ten foot pole. He has went ahead and hung the deer head and the fish on the wall already. We are in dispute about the bed size to put in there though. We have a twin bed that is in the room put together right now (no sheets or anything else on it though), but Doug wants to put a queen bed in there. The room is 10x11, which to me is NOT big enough for a queen size bed and a desk. I told him that we have a full bed in our son's room and that when we have guests they can stay in his room and we will put him downstairs. He is just not happy with that option. He wants to have a "nice" room for guests. I just want to know when we started to run a hotel. It doesn't make any sense to me to have a room just for guests when we need it for other stuff. If we had a five bedroom house we would have a guest room, but we don't. I am pretty sure I will win this one in the end. Plus, our guests will want TV and cable and the spare room doesn't have it and our son's room does.
We threw a double birthday party for the kids last weekend. I few weeks early for our son, but I am SO happy that we went ahead and got it out of the way. I love to entertain. I love to cook for others and to welcome people into my home, but it is tiring. I can't imagine doing it again in a couple of weeks. Plus, it get expensive to throw a birthday party. Logic tells you that it should be cheaper to have it at home then to out source it, but it isn't! You don't have the initial sticker shock that you would at a bouncy place, but in the end I am pretty sure we spent more. Next year we will out source. The kids had a blast and it was great to see all of our friends. Now if I could just convince myself to clean out all of the excess food out of the refrigerator.
Now on to the weekend, the last one before school starts. I cannot believe my baby boy is starting kindergarten, but I am ready. I love him so much but he thrives in school and mommy needs a break. I love seeing his smiling face when I pick him up from school. I cannot wait to see him learn to read and write. We meed his teacher tomorrow and hopefully the teacher in me will stay away and I won't be too critical. It will be hard, but I can do it.

At Last

Well, we are all settled into our new home and I LOVE it!!!! It is nice and big and only a few years old so it even has that new smell to it, which is something you don't usually get in Army housing. The move was not without its glitches. The movers in El Paso were HORRIBLE! My poor husband was left to deal with them on his own as the kids and I frolicked on the beach in Amelia Island, FL (so sad for him). I am pretty sure he is blacklisted from moving companies in El Paso, but they were late and unreliable. What can you do other then complain? Then I rushed up here with a feverish child in tow because I thought I had to meet the movers here. WRONG! It took them over a week to make it to VA from El Paso! How is this possible??? So I had my sick child, my mother and my antsy child all with me for over a week. Although we did make a detour through Hickory, NC along the way and my mother found a new dining room set so we detoured my husband through Atlanta to pick up a UHaul and to bring her old set with him. So score for me since I was in DESPERATE need of a nice table. We also bought a new couch before the movers got here since sitting on the floor is NOT fun.
The day the moving truck pulled up to my new house was the day my mother was leaving, which defeated the point of her being up her for a week. She was supposed to help with the move. Oh well, luckily my sister stepped in to save the day and took my kids that day. In the end everything got here in good shape. We only had a few minor things break, which is a change from the norm. I have told my husband I don't plan to move for awhile and that he better find a way to make that happen. We will see though, you just never know.
I am slowly getting to know the area and learning that I REALLY hate traffic. It is horrible at ALL hours of the day here. I am just going to have to learn alternate routes, because sitting still on the interstate is not my idea of fun. I can't wait to really get out and see the sights around here. I love the fact that I have so much right at my fingertips.
I registered John for kindergarten this past week. School unfortunately doesn't start until September. Flah! I am very ready for full day kindergarten. Don't get me wrong I love my son, but we will all be happier with a break. Plus, he loves school and needs the outlet to get rid of his energy. I started the school shopping today, which felt really good.
So onto my new life in a new city and actually having friends and family around.

I've Done My Time

Today is my last full day in El Paso. I am always excited to move no matter where we are living at the time, but this time it is at a whole new level. Even when I am excited to move I am usually a little sad to be leaving something behind, whether it be friends or memories. I just don't have that here. I haven't attached to anything here. I really feel like I have been in a kind of prison over the past year. I know that sounds horrible, but that is really how I feel. I have found no redeeming qualities to this city at all. The school system is horrible, the people are rude and not very welcoming (and have NO meaning of personal space which drives me insane), not to mention you really do feel like you are in a whole other country since I am pretty sure that English is not most peoples first language. We just didn't bond. Maybe if I would have had a house that I liked...nope not that. I have cursed these "school" tile floors more times then you could even imagine. I am just ready to break free. I will be saying Adios to El Paso as my plane takes off in the morning and not looking back.

Now of course I am VERY excited to be moving to the DC area. I am not only excited to be moving the a city that has nice stuff and a ton of stuff to do, but more then that I can't wait to be near my friends and family. I love the fact that I am not even there yet and I already have things planned. It will be so great for the kids to have their friends back and to be near their cousins. This is such a great move for us and I am going to be baking LOTS of stuff for all the people who made it possible for us to leave El Paso a year early. I hope they like sweets:)

So ADIOS El Paso! I would say it has been nice knowing you, but it hasn't!

Yes, that is me in jeans I haven't worn in two years!

I have lost 15 pounds and counting! I have decided that there really isn't a better feeling then putting on a pair of pants that you couldn't even button a couple of months ago. My mother in law asked if I was going to buy new clothes. Not yet, right now I am enjoying the ones that used to fit me.

I would like to say that I have been so good and have exercised it all off, but I haven't. My wonderful broken toe has put a hold on cardio. I have just been dieting. Now I would LOVE a big juicy cheeseburger and some fries, but I just keep on telling myself that the numbers on the scale taste much better. I still want to lose about 10 more pounds, but that really isn't that many anymore. I can do that. I just feel so good right now that I don't want to stop. I think that once you get over the first few pounds and really start to notice a difference it is easier to continue.

Now I just have to make myself exercise (once my toe feels better....it still hurts) to tone up my new smaller body. That is the hard part, since that is the part I HATE!

No! I am not ready for this yet!

My daughter is convinced she wants to potty train. Here is the problem

1. She is not even 2!

2. I AM NOT READY!!!!

Potty training is a lot of work and messy work at that. I don't like the messy part at all. My son caught on to this the first time he pooped in underwear and never did it again. It is just gross and luckily he realized that quickly.

My daughter has been pulling me into the bathroom for the past few days to "pee pee". She really does go and is so proud of herself, but I am just not ready for this step yet. Diapers are easy. Yes, you heard me right...easy. I hate it when you are in the middle of a meal in a restaurant and you get to hear to six little words, "Mommy, I have to go potty." When they are first training you can't tell them to hold it either. It is go or deal with the messy consequence. There is a reason that my son wore a pull up for all outings for the first couple months after he potty trained. I don't like to clean up messes!!

I don't know where this sudden eagerness of hers to use the potty is coming from. I am not encouraging it by any means. Yes, I praise her after she goes, but I am not asking her if she has to go. My husband thinks this is absolutely wonderful and that she will be potty trained before she is 2...yeah...I don't think so. It would be great if he was the one home all the time with the kids, but it is me who deals with the brunt of all things kid. He really thinks that he had something to do with our son potty training...right. He was working late at the library on his MBA!!! Nothing wrong with that, but I do deserve the credit on that one and am not willing to share. He did his job and I did mine.

potty break....

Back from the baby going "pee pee". This is really getting old!!!

Maybe I should just rejoice that she has an interest, but I really don't mind another year of diapers. Trust me there are worse things. Like...wet clothes in the middle of a restaurant. Just saying.

I just don't feel sorry for you!!

I have been reading all of the "gossip" on TMZ about the Mel Gibson and his baby mama Oksana's drama. I wish I could feel sorry for this woman, but I don't! If you are the woman who broke up a marriage you don't get any sympathy from me. Did she really think that he was going to be this upstanding father after he cheated on his wife with her? Boo hoo he isn't paying enough child support. She should have kept her pants on in the first place. The only one I really feel sorry for in this situation is the baby. Poor thing has a duds for parents. It doesn't have a chance!

Yeah...I am still here.

So I have been slacking. I just haven't had much to say lately. To say my life has been boring might be an understatement. Now that it is summer and I don't have to get John off to school in the morning I am finding it REALLY hard to get motivated. I am doing stuff around the house to get ready for the upcoming move (three weeks from tomorrow I am out of here), but other then that not much is going on. The kids are going out of their mind being cooped up in the house, but it is TOO hot here to do anything outside. I am pretty sure we haven't had too many days below 100 degrees this month. Our backyard is just crunchy and not very inviting. The wind blew the kids pool into the neighbors fence and impaled the thing. John is very distressed about this event. He keeps on telling me that we need to go and buy a new one, but I just don't see the point of buying a new kids pool before we move.

I did get rid of some junk at a yard sale only to realize that I still have too much stuff that I didn't sale. Luckily it looks like Fort Belvoir will be having a post wide yard sale a couple of weeks after we get there. I always find it easier to put stuff aside after a move.

I broke my toe last weekend, or I should say my daughter broke my toe. I don't recommend keeping hand weights within reach of toddlers. They really hurt when they are dropped on a toe. It was my first broken bone. I will always be able to tell her about when she broke mommy's toe.

My sweet husband is coming home early. He gets home on Wednesday and I cannot wait. I haven't told the kids yet. I am just going to surprise them at the airport. John is going to be SO excited to see Daddy. Poor Daddy is not going to be as excited when he realizes that all we are doing over the July 4 weekend is move prep. I am determined to be organized this move. After moving every year to year and a half the past few years things have just gotten thrown into random boxes to never be seen again.

We will officially have two house by the end of next week. I am so relieved that we already have an address in VA, but at the same time it is irritating that we are paying for a house for a full month and won't be living in the place. But this is the price to secure it for us and so that our stuff won't have to go into storage. We have never done a point to point move. I am hopeful that less stuff will break this move. The past move was ridiculous with all of the broken items, but our stuff was in storage for six months. This time it will be put on a truck and taken off that same truck and put into our house.

So to keep in line with my boring, unmotivated life right now I think the kids and I will spend the day in our pj's. We haven't done this for a couple of weeks and I just don't feel like going anywhere today. Hopefully the kids won't drive me insane today!

Wine Rack

I was innocently searching for wine racks on Amazon.com this afternoon and I came upon a contraption called "The Wine Rack". It is a sports bra that has a "belly" (like a camelback) that is inside the bra with a straw attached. I cannot make these things up! I tried to copy to this post, but no luck. This will teach me to search for wine racks. The funny thing is that when I was trying to find a picture to post here I looked it up on other websites and there are actually reviews on this device. One review said that the bra was very comfortable, but was afraid the straw would drip on the carpet and she didn't want to leave stains on her friends carpets. This just strikes me as funny. Are people really walking around with this thing on??? Maybe I should pick me one up for my next wild party (because you know I frequent wild parties). They have them in small and medium. It is so nice they are accommodating to larger breasted women. They have thought of everything. They also have a beer belly that attached to a the belly with a straw. I am sure this is very popular on college campuses.

So the next time you want some wine and are feeling lazy and don't want to carry around a glass just pop onto Amazon and pick yourself up a wine rack to wear. Your significant other will LOVE you!

This Just SUCKS!

So on this Memorial Day I got to take my sweet husband to the airport so that he could deploy to Afghanistan. This is the third time I have had to do this in the past year. I am over it!! The worst part of a deployment is the goodbye. Everything else is fairly easy once you get over the initial goodbye. Even though I know he is only going for 45 days this time it still sucks! One day in that place is too long for anyone. I support what my husband is doing 100 percent and I am SO proud of him. He truly is my hero. I LOVE being an Army wife, but sometimes the things that come along with the job just suck. There is no other way to say it. At least I know that at the end of this deployment I get to move. I have SO much to do between now and then that I should stay pretty busy. As I say that this sucks I still know that I have it so much better then the families whose soldiers deploy for a year or more. I have been there and that truly is one of the worst feelings to come home after that goodbye. That first morning that you wake up alone and realize that you still have a whole year ahead of you seems so daunting.
So, on this Memorial Day I remember all of those soldiers who have given their lives for the freedom of our country. I also remember all of the soldiers who are fighting for this freedom right now. They are true heroes and deserve so much more then they sometimes get. I am proud to call one of these heroes my husband.

Yeah for Moving!

I bought my plane tickets today. This is the first official step to getting out of El Paso! I have also started to collect auto shipping quotes (I refuse to drive halfway across this country with two kids). I cannot believe that we are actually moving in less then two months! I am SO excited and yet a little nervous. The kids and myself are actually leaving before the movers get here, so I am leaving my house intact and then...poof my stuff will appear in Virginia. A little nervous about this, but it should workout. I have so much to do between now and then. So many closets to go through and drawers to clean out. I learned my lesson when we moved from Fort Benning to California, when I did NO prep at all. It was such a pain unpacking since everything was just thrown into boxes. I am now armed with ziplock bags and space bags to make this move seamless. That is my goal, to make it very easy to unpack everything into the new house. I figure that by the time that we make our last move I will have a degree in moving.

Oh, working out...yeah...not so much for the past week. My goal is to start again next week. Less distractions.